As Halloween approaches, many parents are faced with a unique dilemma—how to navigate the world of “sexy” costumes that seem to pop-up in every store, even for kids. Suddenly, a fun holiday full of pumpkins, ghosts, and goblins becomes a more complex situation. This is a prime teachable moment to have an open and honest conversation with your child about what “sexy” means, and how they can love their bodies without feeling pressured to show it off.

Why This Conversation Matters

The word “sexy” is everywhere—in music, movies, advertisements, and even in Halloween costumes. It’s a word that’s often misunderstood, especially by kids. They might hear it and wonder, “What does that even mean?” Instead of avoiding the topic or brushing it off, use this curiosity to your advantage.

When we talk to our kids about the word “sexy,” we’re not just explaining a word. We’re teaching...

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So what's the deal with the egg baby activity? Does it work?

Well that depends what it is being used for.  Is it effective at making young people hold off on sex? That would be tough to prove, but what I do think it is great teachable moment to talk about delaying parenthood. It is a great way to get kids to critically think about and consider how much time it takes to care for something. A pet can do this much better than an egg of course but it proves a point.  There are also some great follow up questions you can ask to get kids thinking. Questions like:

• What sort of things do you think someone might miss out on if they were a parent before they were ready?
• What would you like your life to look like before you become a parent someday (if that is something you'd like to do)? 
• What challenges do you think a new parent feels? 
• What is different about a real baby versus an egg?

How can parents make this activity more effective? 

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